Perspective being everything may be the best perspective to have. Somewhere along the path of this life, I was told by an authority that I had accepted as an authority, that timing is everything. That perspective to me is wrong now. That old perspective had left me blaming myself for missed opportunities and blaming it on my timing. It’s a bit crazy how such simple things can lead to much misery and suffering. The perspective of time left me a victim of this thing we label time. I had given time to much credit and value, when maybe it was not warranted. It excused my responsibility for things, and created a false sense of security or a wall against things as they are. This thing we call time may best be left alone, at least emotionally wise.
I write this, with out really knowing. It seems logical, and letting go of time has brought me a much better sense of peace and acceptance of how things are, be it good or ill. Yes, time still has authority, as I still live with it, but not for or against it. Time is not a king, but just a friend that helps bring a little order to the natural chaos of things as they are; nothing more or less.
I am open to other perspectives and would be grateful for them, be they in agreement or disagreement. I have found that I learn the most from those I disagree with, but feel some comfort from those in agreement.
An open mind is hard to hurt with opinion